Se a culpa for nossa, haverá a humilhação do pedido de desculpas, a humilhação mais profunda de fazer restituições onde for possível, e a humilhação mais profunda de todas que é confessar que as feridas que causamos levarão tempo para sarar e não podem facilmente ser esquecidas. Se, por outro lado, não fomos nós quem causou o mal, então talvez tenhamos de suportar o embaraço se reprovar ou repreender a outra pessoa, arriscando, assim, perder a sua amizade. Embora os seguidores de Jesus jamais tenham o direito de recusar perdão, muito menos fazer vingança, não nos é permitido baratear o perdão, oferecendo-o prematuramente onde não houver perdão.
It is this most basic human loneliness that threatens us and is so hard to face. Too often we will do everything possible to avoid the confrontation with the experience of being alone, and sometimes we are able to create the most ingenious devices to prevent ourselves from being reminded of this condition. Our culture has become most sophisticated in the avoidance of pain, not only our physical pain but our emotional and mental pain as well. We not only bury our dead as if they were still alive, but we also bury our pains as if they were not really there. We have become so used to this state of anesthesia, that we panic when there is nothing or nobody left to distract us. When we have no project to finish, no friend to visit, no book to read, no television to watch or no record to play, and when we are left all alone by ourselves we are brought so close to the revelation of our basic human aloneness and are so afraid of experiencing an all-pervasive sense of loneliness that we will do ...
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